I recently purchased* the Horizon Necklace from FashionABLE‘s new CustomizABLE line. The launch couldn’t have come at a better time with the Holiday season on the horizon. The line – along with all of FashionABLE’s offerings – is ethically sourced and ethically produced in Nashville, Tennessee.
The interface is really convenient and you get to see a sample of the finished product before making your purchase, though I should note that the sample image for this particular piece shows 4 beads on each side and I only received 3. I kind of like this version better, but that’s something to keep in mind since it costs an extra $5.00. The stamping option, however, is free, so take advantage of it if you can think of a meaningful word or name to add.
I chose to add the word Wise to my pendant because it’s my last name and a trait I aspire to. I didn’t realize until I was wearing it around my neck while reading an article on The Toast about changing your last name when you get married (well, more about making fun of the idea of women changing their names when they get married) how “traditional’ I may come across for having chosen “my husband’s” last name as a focal point of the piece. I’ve gotten a lot of flak for “bowing to the patriarchy” and changing my name when I got married and I’ve struggled to adequately express why it doesn’t make me the very worst feminist. Because I’m a loud and proud feminist and I don’t mind that I changed my name. It doesn’t make me feel inferior. It doesn’t destroy years of feminist work, contrary to the gut reaction of many I’ve encountered. This isn’t a make or break thing.
Yes, I made a choice that aligns itself with the patriarchy. But not every decision is political. We have to live in a world with fluid and ever evolving gender norms, expectations, and definitions and we can’t possibly all navigate them the same way. So fellow feminists: I’m terribly sorry if you feel like I’ve shunned our great movement, but I’m not going to take it back. And it’s not your business to tell me I made a mistake.
Thanks for reading and check out FashionABLE’s CustomizABLE Line!
*FashionABLE provided a discount code in exchange for a review.