I’m so glad the adorable, 1950s scarf thing is back in, because it makes every outfit look just a little more elegant. And it means that I can make an outfit I’ve worn in some form or the other for 2+ years look current with minimal effort.
We’ve had several large donations come in at the thrift shop due to the passing of a few stylish ladies. I was close to one of them, Mary, and I enjoyed feeling close with her again through the process of sorting her clothes. I never met the other woman, but she had very good taste in scarves, so I purchased three of them. Some people are turned off by the idea that they’re wearing things that belonged to dead people, but I like to think a part of them can live on through the thoughtful re-wearing of their belongings. Material goods meant something to the people who collected them, and there’s no reason to discount that. I honor those passed by mingling my own sense of style with theirs.
Sometimes it feels like they aren’t even gone, just away for a little while.